It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of the solitude. The phrase - 'Self Reliance' means that its easy to forget who you are when you are in among a crowd of people or your friends, but the one who can be him or herself when they are around a crowd is the real you . OPPA!!! ...